Brief notes on sex and gender behavior

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Michael Logony: There’s a lot of material in religious books and stories that says that souls first came here to Earth to experience sex. Is it true? Is it also true on their own planets? How do they view this “energy”? I ask because sexual energy can become the highest motivation for (physical) humans, it is therefore very powerful.

 

I think I wrote in my book about sex… Maybe no, I don’t remember. I wrote somewhere.

It is a tool for evolution. Males are needed as warriors, they are simplified females. Two sexes are needed for competing for best mates, the ones that have best genes. It is all about Darwinian selection.

It is used in great many species and cultures. More evolved alien races have third sex which is androgynous. We witness emergence of such on Earth.

Sexual energy is somewhat misinterpreted. There is duality beyond sex. In many cases it is not sexual but other forms of spiritual energy which is attributed to be sexual one.

One of the drives for sex on Earth is our extreme loneliness. Other civilizations are much more connected, Earth humans are extreme case of isolation and loneliness. So sexual love is a replacement for spiritual connection with God and other souls.

Astrological vibrations are important. They are influencing but not defining pairwise and higher-number-wise connections. Ideal pairs are separated 5 months apart in birth dates. But poor astrological compatibility could be a great drive for growth.

Incarnation wise, everyone have been a male and a female. Our higher selves have a gender, which is not correlated with this life. Many people behave as opposite sex (women being overly dominant and proactive, men being overly submissive and passive) in part because they have been opposite gender in several past lives and got used to that.

Gender-specific stereotype behavior is a part of mind control. Our liberation comes in part via expressing inner self in a way which is most natural, most creative, most benevolent.

It helps to look at everyone around as at a child. Perceiving everyone as a child allows to circumvent sexually determined stereotypes and to be most benevolent.

Sexual dogma is limiting. It helps to define own loyalties and this liberates. For example, people loyal to their mates have no problem flirting since they know for sure that this flirt is in no way violating their loyalty. And the opposite – ones who are not certain in their loyalty to their mates are inhibited in relationships since they are afraid and not certain of what they want and can.

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  1. Erm… talking about sex, in my own healing job, I found out that I was related to the life creation on earth, the problem of my sex is that I was so obsess to have sex in different bodies, animals, non-animals and bizarre modified beings, and even installing sexual program in my body and mind. I had terrible sexual traumas, used to watch a lot of animal porn until I realized what’s wrong with me. This is part of the story, another problem is that my sexual energy was being hijacked by invasive aliens, they put a lot of implants and manipulate my sexual part and make me vulnerable to sexual desire.

    Don’t worry about these invasive aliens and negative implants, they had been taken cared last year. I never judge them for what they had done on me.

    However, the real healing which really starts stop my sexual problem is when I had found myself in relation to the creation of life form, how God is having sex with its own form, how to clean the umbilical cord of God, how the cosmic alignment and cycle related to sex, what is twinflame and soulmate. This healing is so intense that I need to hold my breath and felt a lot of unsatisfied sexual releases like pulling out clocked phantom strings from my sexual organ, it is fun though, but very time consuming.

    After many healings I had done, I do not have any irrational sexual respond (like suddenly snap in and get aroused for reading something non sexual at all), only the sexual respond that had to do with my healthy creativity.

    I know this had nothing to do with the post here. Why is there the sex and gender behavior? I am only aware of life creation and sex.

    • This is interesting, Enki. Thank you for sharing. I was wondering if this “obsession” was the very first motive of souls to incarnate here. Interesting thing is that even good spirits who reside in Nature don’t like being contaminated by sexual energy, for example: if you’re having sex in a pond or a meadow where a spirit lives, you will be most likely punished by them later (psychic attacks) unless you use your power to apologize and/or heal yourself. Similar things is mentioned in Bible – The Book of Leviticus. I wonder why it is important for the Universe.

      • You are asking my sophisticate story here. When the God created the form, it has no life in it, the God go into the form and see nothing, he came out again and was obsessed with the form, he then choose to reenter the form and fill the form with his energy. When this happened, the God created an umbilical cord with the form which need to be cleared and healed, if not, he will stuck and remained with this form. When you watch a woman give birth to a baby, what do you see in the whole process? If you are asking me about the contamination of sexual energy. Psychic attack… I would say many choose to see the progress as something dirty and ugly.

        • Hmmm, that’s interesting. It’s a good analogy. So when we incarnate, we help to clear and heal this umbilical cord that connects the Creation (1-6th dimension) with God (7th-higher)?

          Yeah the contamination may be caused by human “sexual” smell rather than the energy itself. I’m not sure here. But it’s certain that we are somewhat unique to this planet, there are more such laws that apply to humans than to animals.

          • It is not really an analogy… I do not know if 10th dimension is the completion of the source, if you are dealing with numerology of creation. I can say during my healing session, my pendulum told me that this was happened at 9th and 10th dimension. I can’t say this happened to everyone, this particular information had to do with my own blueprint in this universe. It is even stranger if I said God is giving his energy to give life to the creation by having sex using the form, the form is not the God, yet the form become God like. I am not sure with all the things I found, but it works for me and maybe probably only me.

            To me, an analogy would be something like this: In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
            Spiritual science has its own odd sense of terminology. Not everyone can have same interpretation from a same information.

          • Thank you both. It makes sense. God is God and the Creation at the same time. The connection may have a different meaning for different people. Generally it’s like our own body – we have mind yet we are cells. It’s all holistic, nothing can be separated.

          • You have the sense of life force connected as physical things, I do not know if physical things have life in it if the spirit leaves the physical body.

            I am not sure if I should say this, matters are the mental and sexual ejaculation of God through the form of this universe, but matters are not the form, the form contains the matters. So, the life force is the God, the life form is when the God entered the form, the the matters are the precipitation of energy of God. God that enter the form and experimenting with the matters. And when the God entered into the matters, the experiments, it causes the changes of the form because of experiencing with the matters, which is very addictive, I guess this is when the karma start to turn. I do not know how can I came out with such ideas, it is just very natural to me since I had done a lot of healing about the creations and the God.

          • I guess even if it doesn’t have a spiritual life, it is still connected to God in some way, because God is all that is. And it can still have some form of ethereal particles connected to it even without spirits. But generally I’m not sure here.

            So is it possible that sexual energy come out of the creation, i. e. God didn’t create that? It would make sense since it is neutral…

          • It is funny to see many scholar do not understand the very first part of bible, it is just the creation of God.
            John 1:1 In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
            John 1:2 He was with God in the beginning.
            John 1:3 Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made.
            Because they are way too analogical.

            They say it is Word, but I can say it is a life form, but I can understand why it is being said as Word, because it is a vibration. So, it just depends on how you view it.

            Actually I wouldn’t say the creation is solely sexual, it contains mental energy as well. In my case the energy cycle is running between sex and mind, same with astrological alignment. Maybe this is why the bible become very hard since during that time humans do not understand these at all, it would appear to be alchemy or magic like phrases, which is forbidden to them.

          • Yeah it is all a matter of definitions and understanding. I can imagine that God created everything out of love – out of himself. But he might have used the sexual and mental energies to make it work.

          • i would say Creation includes all dimensions as well as god. pure god’s relam is outside of dimensions. all dimensions are the matrix and there are consciousnesses like angels which are created to support it.

          • lol

          • I didn’t mean to joke…

          • No, it is just about how funny we are trying to understand this and come out with something that is easy.

      • I really doubt it is that simple. That the spirits of nature detest sex.
        For example other mammals have sex in nature just fine. If anything, I would say only sex which is wrong energetically would be detested by spirits. If it is justified, say if it is out of love and for procreation, if it is in high vibration, they would have nothing against it.
        Obviously sexual act is a disturbance in energies on multiple dimensions. But this could be positive and negative depending on how developed the people are and how developed the love is.
        In general any activity, especially meditation can be spoiled by inner fears. Often people who have a lot of inner disturbances have bad experiences if they meditate. As Bashar said, their (Sassani) presence (what is the new name for Sassani?) – … their presence causes integration and blending of our fragmented consciousness and unless we are clean and pure, our own fears and fragmentation causes panic attacks. It has nothing to do with what ETs are but only that we bring up our hidden dark side. Same thing may explain why having sex at nature might bring up darkness – maybe this is a healthy process of integration and these are inner fears which are brought up?

        One more note: for spirits of nature, nakedness may not be shameful. They don’t care, it is only fears of humans that make it shameful.

        Also it would depend who is having sex at nature. If people live at nature, they may know how to behave and the natural spirits are used to them. They have a relationship. If it is someone from the city, the energies might be very different… So my conclusion is that the story of nature spirits haunting lovers sounds a bit simplistic to me. Not that it never happens, but maybe the relationship is more complex…

        About haunting and possession, it is lower vibration of the person that allows lower level spirits to interact and enter the consciousness.

        When a person is of high vibration, lower spirits can not even relate to this high vibration, high vibration protects. You become invisible and invincible.

        • I open myself to any kind of bizarre possibilities in spirituality, I know myself if I limited myself in certain way of thinking, my energy will get stuck. Unlocking strangeness is my favorite, yet the dream can only be decoded and remembered by me.

        • I agree. I know I usually tend to oversimplify things but it is sometimes necessary. I don’t have proper experience to be a spiritual alchemist to tell you exactly what disturbs them.

          I agree that Nature spirits don’t care whether you are naked or not. They even seem to appreciate your nakedness because you show that you are humble.

          What matters here is rather a HUMAN SMELL that is associated with sex. Just look at all the purification ceremonies that exist (including saunas). It seems that our “smell” is somehow not natural. Animals (especially dogs) have sex anywhere and they don’t seem to be punished for anything. I guess humans are expected to be more soul-like and if they’re not, they create imbalance in Nature. But it is more of a spiritual/physical alchemy.

          I agree that sexual energy can be abused and if it is, it disturbes (good) spirits as well since they don’t like negativity. They may think we are trying to attack them energetically. If the sex is associated with love and good intention, I would say it doesn’t matter to them – BUT we are talking about the pure sexual “energy” here, not the “smell”.

          I agree that high vibration protects.

    • i blame much on mainstream culture. the sexual learning is dominated by fear and aggression. it is surprising that with so distorted sexual upbringing humams continue to multiply and have families.
      i wrote about that a chapter in my book3.

      • Part of the fear is because some souls addicted with sex and get stuck here, in their subconsciousness this is the reason causing them to unable to return back to other side. Same issue goes with drug addicts, they blamed some natural drugs as something poisonous. But part of the truth is that bizarre sexual and drug addicts do cause many degree of problems.

        • That’s true. Here we are also back to the karma issue, there are so many restrictions from the spirit world on sexual energy. Simply by being obsessed with sex and having it in inappropriate places you damage your karma.

      • Yeah it is interesting. Personally I am kind of detached from having sex with someone – and others don’t get it. If I tell them I’m waiting for the true love they say that I’m wasting my young age. It’s all disgusting. Sexual energy can be used with any other emotion and it is essentially an accelerator and people get addicted to it. It is essentially the strongest brainwasher if abused.

        • The negative aliens that had been abused me, I allowed them to do so, because I did not judge them, even, I healed them, so that they can really understand love and to let them how what they really want, I know this is happening. There was once when I do healing, I had a very strong sexual respond which it turns out that disincarnate will become my future son, there is a connection between me with that disincarnate, his soul was being sealed by me in ancient time. You cannot really tell what is the answer before you check and find it, I am always saying that spirituality had a very odds sense of understanding.

          I do not really detached from porn, in fact, I write porn story, but that doesn’t mean I am addicted to sex, there is something personal which I have hard time to tell. Why gay like anal sex? Why some people like oral sex? Why some people prefer external stimulation? Sex can behave like brain, it responded with your thought, or, it might not works with some ideas even you are willing to try at all. My range of acceptance of bizarre ideas also make me capable of thinking way further than a regular sexual addict.

          But I must agree in some of your opinion, you cannot fulfill lust, and you cannot force a sex just by pure material stimulation because you wanted it without any ideas of what you are trying to do (in my case, I was previously curious why the body behave like that, why it produces such undefinable feeling, this is because the concept here have creative excitement at all, it is pure forced material stimulation due to the intention behind it), that will attract negative spirits that suck your energy and make you become an addict, which is also known as possession. I do sense a lot of bad spirits in porn sites, but I am there to heal them as well.

          I can put up another topic, material stimulation without spiritual care had a great degree of wrong act, such as DNA manipulation, Large Atomic Collider, inhuman substance abstracted from animals, alien abductions, forced telepathy, etc.. (in turn, such spiritual damages need to be healed, that is why lightworkers are here). There are too many things that I had no idea to put them out, most of the time people just do not understand what I am trying to say.

          • correction: this is because the concept here have *NO* creative excitement at all, it is pure forced material stimulation due to the intention behind it

          • I agree with you that spirits, especially the bad ones, also need healing. I admire your work, personally I might have a problem facing negativity in such extent. But everybody has a different mission here and I love your intention.

            So if I put it in a simple way, sexual energy can be abused (since it is neutral) and this way it has no creativity behind it at all. But if you join it with good intention and positive emotion (such as love) it can become one of the greatest creative sources – that is exactly what God might have done.

          • There had been many times I tried to stop wasting my energy by putting limit to myself to explain my mind, I save a lot of energy instead and being pop up with more appropriate questions to ask and finally get it right. This is what the information I had received in my dream in recent.

          • You’re right. If we have two minds (higher and lower), they don’t have to know exactly the same things. We are here to experience, it should be our first priority and our energy should go this way as well.

          • I had been once an angle and a spirit guide, I go into the body and possess my client because I am frustrated with him.

          • And many beings saw this, they had learn a mistake from me.

          • lol haha you were not very patient O:-)

          • Not I lost my patient, it is the madness of doing the same thing but waiting for different outcome. That is why I choose to be invasive, and many of them said I am the one who induced the fear in them, for the fear in them they blamed me to for the cause, they shut down themselves on me. I was being isolated, and then I choose to create my own realm.

        • The negative aliens that had been abused me, I allowed them to do so, because I did not judge them, even, I healed them, so that they can really understand love and to let them how what they really want, I know this is happening. There was once when I do healing, I had a very strong sexual respond which it turns out that disincarnate will become my future son, there is a connection between me with that disincarnate, his soul was being sealed by me in ancient time. You cannot really tell what is the answer before you check and find it, I am always saying that spirituality had a very odds sense of understanding.

          I do not really detached from porn, in fact, I write porn story, but that doesn’t mean I am addicted to sex, there is something personal which I have hard time to tell. Why gay like anal sex? Why some people like oral sex? Why some people prefer external stimulation? Sex can behave like brain, it responded with your thought, or, it might not works with some ideas even you are willing to try at all. My range of acceptance of bizarre ideas also make me capable of thinking way further than a regular sexual addict.

          But I must agree in some of your opinion, you cannot fulfill lust, and you cannot force a sex just by pure material stimulation because you wanted it without any ideas of what you are trying to do (in my case, I was previously curious why the body behave like that, why it produces such undefinable feeling, this is because the concept here have no creative excitement at all, it is pure forced material stimulation due to the intention behind it), that will attract negative spirits that suck your energy and make you become an addict, which is also known as possession. I do sense a lot of bad spirits in porn sites, but I am there to heal them as well.

          I can put up another topic, material stimulation without spiritual care had a great degree of wrong act, such as DNA manipulation, Large Atomic Collider, inhuman substance abstracted from animals, alien abductions, forced telepathy, etc.. (in turn, such spiritual damages need to be healed, that is why lightworkers are here). There are too many things that I had no idea to put them out, most of the time people just do not understand what I am trying to say.

  2. What do you mean the first one?
    I suggest that sex and gender are secondary. God has no gender. Higher dimensions have no gender. Gender is a property of physical beings which evolve via Darwinian evolution. It is just an property that comes very late in evolution of life and serve a specific purpose to help genes to compete with each other. This is part of duality. As duality diminishes with raising frequency, the role of sex diminishes.

    • Thank you. I mean isn’t that exactly what souls wanted in the Beginning? To experience such sexual duality? Is that why they started to incarnate? Or did they just say: “Hey, look! There’s a new intelligent life form, let’s incarnate!” 🙂

      • Human form has been invented very recently in the universe. Before that there were lizards. Before that there were fish and birds, before that there were insects. Even insects have sex but it is quite different.
        I am sure souls come for whatever experience they can get, but the more complex is the life form, the better is experience. Humans are quite complex and can fit a substantial piece of the soul giving it interesting experience and energy.
        The fact that this life form is evolving using 2 sexes is important but secondary.
        Some developed life forms use 1 or 3 sexes. It is only on earth that sex is so extremely emotionally charged. For the zeta greys it is not as important. They procreate in vitro and don’t have families.

        • Thank you so much for the explanation. So sex is more emotional here so it is part of the emotional exceptionality of Earth. But I understand it is only secondary.

          • Yes. Thank you.

          • Also, I found my mistake or more uncertainty, which needs to be explored deeper.
            I know almost for sure that multiple genders have evolved as a result of darwinian evolution (which goes hand in hand with intelligent creation). But I also know that higher selves which are of a very high dimension and largely non-physical also have gender. So the question that awaits the answer is where does darwinian evolution stop? How far does go the gender differentiation into higher dimensions?

          • With all that said, sexual experience is of utter importance.

            From higher prospective it is secondary, but
            keep in mind that other experiences our souls can get without going deep into our 3d darkness. But they chose to come here for a reason and one of the most important reasons to come down here is to experience sex of the Earth type.
            As we transform to the 4th dimension, it is precisely our job to transform our 3d dark sex into 4d enlightened sex.
            Much can be learned from our 4d friends about the future of sex.

            For example our 3d sex is external – we crave for sensations and wish for things outside.
            In 4d sex is internal – it is within, in the soul. The main action there is in meditation – to match the frequency of the loved one and to become one. Touch in 4d is not necessary. It is possible and in some cultures essential, but not necessary. They love by uniting spiritually. Many races even conceive a child spiritually without touching each other.

            Much to learn…

            All that said, I still crave for external and physical signs of affection from females of reproductive age. My take on love is that it is geared towards reproduction, towards conceiving children, so for me it is inseparable from the love for children. Again, there is much space to learn for me here and to evolve… with that, my recent take is that my loyalty to my wife goes first. So the craving is again secondary to loyalty.

          • Thank you, Max. It explains a lot. My take on sexual energy is that it is separated from love – it is a neutral type of energy that can go with other emotions and hence can make it positive or negative. For example, with love it is creative and with fear it is destructive. It is understandable because people have either good memories or traumas. Sigmund Freud was one of the specialists in this area. Sexual energy, because it is neutral, makes other emotions connected with it stronger. It is much easier for a person to get into an excited state if they experience the sexual energy along with the emotion (love, anger …). It is the strongest energy that influences our physical mind.

          • Freud and Jung revolutionized the psychology and both knew that soul was non-physical. My take on Freud that he was correct in many things but skewed much of things which are unrelated to sex into sex-based. Much of psychology goes beyond sex and for Freud everything was based on sex – sex was primary and everything evolved from it. It is a simplification, but I say Freudianism is overly skewed in interpretations, although its findings are largely true.
            Similarly, one could base all of psychology on astrology and this would also be skewed. Sex, astrology, genetic makeup, social upbringing, consensus of collective consciousness, god, past lives, ET influences – all of this comprises our psychology and any of those taken alone would skew the real picture – these are to be taken together to make the balanced picture.

          • I agree. That’s what I try to do on RL site – to integrate knowledge. People tend to see their theory behind everything. I just wanted to say that Freud was true in a few things but that doesn’t mean I agree with everything what he said. He did his job. Jung as well. Today, especially light workers should learn from Jung because it was he who first used the paradigms of quantum physics. He learned from native shamans – that’s what I have in common with Jung and I admire him much. Jung was true about synchronicities, archetypes and other things. Freud was an excellent listener and knew about sexual energy in an interesting way. Of course, they were not right in everything they published. It would be miracle if they had been. It’s up to us today to integrate their knowledge and when we find out that one thing might be wrong, that doesn’t mean we should take their experience less seriously. I agree that sexual energy is not everything. But it is a major part of our lives and it has greater power over our physical mind than love or fear alone. I was introduced to mainstream spirituality only about half a year ago. Before then I relied on traditional spirituality, psychology and science in general. I don’t know why but mainstream lightworkers don’t like to talk about certain issues like animal spirits, spiritual powers, and such. They pay very little attention to it. Even Jesus knew about spiritual powers, he went on vision quest to higher grounds many times to get power to heal. Again, I don’t say that everything is true. But since I like integration, I would love to see the mainstream knowledge along with the traditional one. It is good to focus on something but when lightworkers find something they don’t understand, they are confused and many of them will no longer want to be lightworkers – which is bad. We should constantly focus on love, positivity, and strong will. But we also need to be open-minded and confront reality. Otherwise we could have stayed in the spirit world. 😀 lol

          • Another topic – disheartened lightworkers…

  3. Thank you, Max, it helps a lot. So is sex a crucial part of soul experience? Or the first one?

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